1. Sort out your feelings
It’s a serious issue, as a good wife is half the battle. Work, friends, money – nothing will bring so much joy as a dependable and tender friend who waits for you at home. That’s why it’s very important not to rush at everything moving by you. Moreover, you can insult a girl you are getting acquainted with.
Ukrainian women are trustful and emotional. They take it very seriously when they are left. Sometimes their wounds can’t heal for the whole life. Taking into account this treat this issue seriously.
Think seriously if you are really ready for serious relations. Maybe it’s an outburst of feelings.
One of husband’s duties is to love his spouse. Women are completely different: tender, fragile, defenseless.
That’s why a person who is going to get married should understand that he’ll protect his wife, tolerate her weaknesses, listen to her inner turmoil, as Ukrainian girls have many of them.
She is likely to want children and when she has them you will have to support her when they are small.
Are you ready for such a turn in your life? If yes, then read on. If not think of escort service or something like that. It is easier and probably cheaper.
You should know how to define among many women’s characteristics those that will for sure lead to an unsuccessful marriage. Here are the main traps men get into.
Well, there are the following criteria:
A woman whose attractiveness is more than average can’t make a good wife. Cross off all ladies from your list of candidates all those who are extremely popular among men. Believe other people’s experience – very beautiful women are practically always unhappy and they’ll make you unhappy as well. Believe it, it’s proved to be true!
Then exclude brides who are too young – they haven’t become personalities yet and you are sure that your choice in 2-5 years won’t understand she made a ‘mistake’ and start searching for a new prince. It’s better to marry a woman in an age when she already knows what she wants and even has been married.
It’s dangerous to marry a 17-year-old virgin. But it doesn’t mean that you should marry and old witch.
While communicating on a dating agency site specify all candidates who grew up in an incomplete family. If her mother was left by her father she’ll avenge her frustrations on her husband. She’ll remember her mother’s words about all men being bastards… They will be in her subconscious. Never marry a girl who lived with her mother for a long time – it’ll be hard for you to break off this knot if you don’t want your mother-in-law take decisions in your family. Cross out such girl at once.
From those who left remove all those who are too socially active – if she has 300 friends in social networks she will continue living for them not for you. A great number of friends should alert you at once.
Avoid too reserved and non-communicative girls. You are always sure what to expect from them.
By no means marry a woman with strong ambitions who wants to achieve everything in her life herself. Have you seen many female top-managers who are happily married? Either family or career – you can’t combine both.
Avoid very well-read, intellectual persons, otherwise you’ll have to tolerate their contemptuous looks because you don’t know all Kant’s works by heart. Run away from silly women – you’ll be tired of their stupidity very quickly.
Avoid very hot as well as cold persons.
As soon as you have got meet and date with a Ukrainian girls, ask her as many questions as possible and listen to her more – almost every woman will talk of all her negative feelings, just give her freedom to talk.
She tells you how she sent out her former boyfriend from her house in the middle of the night? Think about it…
Look more attentively at how she treats other people – if she does it haughtily and scornfully – stop this relationship – she will treat you the same way one day.
You shouldn’t marry a woman who speaks of men badly or in a judgemental manner. Run away from a woman who has many unresolved problems – having become your wife she will expect that you’ll solve all of them.